If you have a business that works with dating, there is a key question that you have probably asked yourself:
👉 How many reminders should I send to my clients so they don’t forget their appointment?
Sending few can cause customers to not show up.
Sending too many can be annoying.
The key is to find the balance.
In this article, I’ll explain the best reminder strategy, when to send them, and how to automate them so you don’t waste time or customers.
Why is it so important to send appointment reminders?
Missed appointments are one of the biggest problems in businesses such as:
- Clinics
- Beauty Centers
- Hairdressers
- Professional Consultations
Each absence involves:
- Loss of money
- Timeout
- Disorganization
A good reminder system can reduce “no-shows” by up to 70%.
How many appointment reminders you should send
The most effective strategy is not to send just one, but several at key moments.
1. Reminder at the time of booking
This first message confirms to the customer that:
- the appointment is registered
- The data is correct
👉 Avoid mistakes from the start.
2. 24-hour reminder
This is the most important.
It is used to:
- Refresh your memory
- Allow changes
- Avoiding forgetfulness
👉 It is the reminder that reduces absences the most.
3. Reminder 1 hour before
Perfect for:
- Clueless customers
- Complicated agendas
- Same-day appointments
👉 It acts as a “last warning”.
4. Messages in the event of changes or cancellations
This is where many businesses fail.
It is essential to send notifications when:
- An appointment is modified
- cancels
- It is reprogrammed
👉 Avoid confusion and improve the customer experience.
5. Sending a ticket or voucher
A detail that makes the difference.
Submit a ticket or confirmation:
- Build trust
- Professionalize your service
- Record the customer

The most common mistake when managing reminders
Many businesses make this mistake:
❌ Send only a reminder
❌ Sending it too late
❌ Do it manually
The result:
- forgetfulness
- missed appointments
- Chaos on the agenda
How to automate reminders effortlessly
When your business grows, doing it manually is no longer viable.
This is where automation comes in.
With tools like Wilapp, you can have:
- Automatic confirmation when booking
- Reminder 1 day before
- Reminder 1 hour before
- Notices of changes or cancellations
- Automatic ticket submission
All without having to send a single message manually.
Benefits of a well-defined reminder strategy
Implementing this system allows you to:
- Reduce absences
- Improve organization
- Save time
- Increase revenue
- Offer a more professional experience
Conclusion
It’s not about sending a lot of messages, but about sending them at the right time.
A well-structured strategy makes the difference between:
- A messy agenda
- An optimized business
If you’re still managing your reminders manually, you’re wasting time and money.
Automating them is the next logical step.